Over the past year, I've been sharing my dating stories on this blog. As you know, I haven't met the "one" yet. In fact, I haven't met anyone I would even consider "dateable."
Have you heard the phrase: "You attract who you are"?
Well, I've come to the conclusion that I'm crazy.
Yep.
How else could I explain the type of men I've been meeting?
After this latest episode, I had to take a hard look at myself: Why am I not attracting the kind of man I want? I had to ask myself: What is it about me that keeps attracting crazies — clingy men who are overly aggressive? These are not the kind of men I pray for or want, so why do they always come into my life? What am I doing wrong?
Is it the way I dress? Maybe it's my attitude or demeanor. Maybe I'm giving off a certain vibe — desperate and needy. Maybe I'm in some way projecting my own insecurities.
I don't know.
But it's something about me that's attracting a certain type of man. It's also something about me that is NOT attracting the kind of man I want to share my life with.
Remember the blog post I wrote several weeks ago titled, Maybe It's Me.
Well, maybe it is me.
I mean, I consider myself a sane, responsible, pretty straight up person. But maybe I'm delusional.
What are your thoughts?
Do you believe in the Law of Attraction?
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3 comments:
I do believe in the law of attraction and understand it in every other area, except MEN!! I don't understand it. I tend to attract men with commitment issues. I dunno. Just try to refocus, I guess.
i'm really disturbed by the trend to blame ourselves for everything that goes wrong. black women get dumped on for everything. you ARE sane, attractive, funny, intelligent, hard working, a great friend. perfect? of course not. but all the qualities someone should want in a mate. if i were a man I'D want you. DO NOT give in to the "what's wrong with me?" blues. ain't nothing wrong with you.
It hurts my heart to read this because I know you are a lovely person.
There is nothing wrong with you. Stop speaking truth to that.
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